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small measures with ashley: the art of loafing

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I’ve long worshipped at the altar of “busyness”. I have running, ongoing lists of things I’d like to, and intend to, complete. Lists for house projects, lists for garden and landscaping projects. Reading lists. Essentially, all manner of lists for filling up my free time. For as long as I can remember, I’ve felt uncomfortable if I wasn’t “doing” something. If it helped the planet, or my community, or my friends and family in the process, even better. And then I met my husband, who worships at the diametrically opposed alter of “slowness”, accompanied by its first cousin, “idleness.” [image credits, clockwise from top left: the washington post, popmatters, dullog, wikimedia, sign post tours, amazon]

Never one to rush through anything, he helped me learn the beauty in being aware of each experience (instead of my customary pining for the past or longing for the future), of reducing my pace enough to really see what’s occurring around me, to enjoy just simply “being”. Part and parcel of his approach includes relishing idleness-not over-planning life, simply taking the time to notice the trees, along with the forest. I couldn’t have hoped for a more perfect foil.

And so, today’s small measure celebrates the decidedly low-fi activity of nothingness, of loafing, of absently whiling away the minutes and hours. The pursuit of inactivity is seriously maligned in today’s do-more, be-more, see-more, go-more culture. “Idle hands are the devil’s tools”, courtesy of one Geoffrey Chaucer (Tale of Melibee), is a mindset so deeply ingrained in modern society that many of us feel guilty for having a long, ambling lunch, or taking an impromptu nap, or simply seeing where the day takes us.

“The Art of Doing Nothing: Simple Ways to Make Time for Yourself” by Veronique Vienne is full of insights, suggestions, and tidbits for embracing intentional loafing. From meditating to taking a long bath to staring pointlessly at the sea, Vienne engages her readers to find merit in simply “being” instead of always “doing.” In Tom Lutz’s
“Doing Nothing: A History of Loafers, Loungers, Slackers, and Bums in America” , we learn about inspirational do-nothings, from Thoreau to Oscar Wilde to Kerouac.

As for myself, I’ve learned that my finest bursts of creativity occur when loafing about. The long, lingering cup of tea whilst watching the sun rise over the ridge behind my house, the extended rocking chair session on the front porch, the purposeless gazing at the creek across the road from my mother’s house-when my focus isn’t anywhere but on that which is right before me, my mind seizes the opportunity to move freely around and about its nooks and crannies, folds and membranes, surprising me with unplanned, unprovoked, unintentional delights.

CLICK HERE for the rest of “Constitutional Rights (Or, The Art of Loafing)”, more on the walking “constitutional” and the Cloud Appreciation Society’s manifesto after the jump!

Two of my most favorite idling pursuits are the “constitutional” and “cloud watching.” A walk taken simply for the sake of well-being and pleasure, the constitutional was once widely practiced. In some parts of the world, such as China, it still is. The Danish philosopher Soren Kierkegaard was a serious devotee of the constitutional: “Above all,” he wrote, “do not lose your desire to walk. Every day I walk myself into a state of well-being and walk away from every illness. I have walked myself into my best thoughts…” Walking clearly makes for brilliant minds. Friedrich Nietzsche, Mahatma Ghandi, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Albert Einstein, and Charles Darwin similarly found solace, well-being, and inspiration during their ambles. According to Nietzsche, “All great thoughts are conceived while walking.” He would know. I’ve found that, for a constitutional to truly work, both physically and mentally, it can’t be rushed. Move along at a comfortable rate, knowing that, at the risk of sounding cliché, the journey is the destination. A small notebook and pen or pencil can be handy, should “eureka” moments present themselves.

Cloud watching, another much-loved activity, costs nothing, is readily accessible anywhere on the planet, and unleashes the imagination more profoundly than many things I know. If you’re more of a joiner than a soloist, you’ll found your match in the Cloud Appreciation Society , lovers and aficionados of all things cumulus, stratus, and cirrus. I’m particularly fond of their manifesto:

“WE BELIEVE that clouds are unjustly maligned
and that life would be immeasurably poorer without them.

We think that they are Nature’s poetry,

and the most egalitarian of her displays, since
everyone can have a fantastic view of them.

We pledge to fight ‘blue-sky thinking’ wherever we find it.
Life would be dull if we had to look up at

cloudless monotony day after day.

We seek to remind people that clouds are expressions of the
atmosphere’s moods, and can be read like those of
a person’s countenance.

Clouds are so commonplace that their beauty is often overlooked.
They are for dreamers and their contemplation benefits the soul.
Indeed, all who consider the shapes they see in them will save
on psychoanalysis bills.

And so we say to all who’ll listen:
Look up, marvel at the ephemeral beauty, and live life with your head in the clouds!”

Here’s wishing you a weekend full of protracted brunches, drawn-out star gazing, lengthy conversations, idle walks, and pointless cloud watching!

*Please know, at this time of unspeakable tragedy for the citizens of Haiti, that my above post in no way advocates a lack of giving, concern, or activism. At all times, and especially now, I think it is imperative to be aware of, and act on behalf of, the needs and plights of those in one’s community, whether that community is the one that finds you rubbing shoulders with your neighbors, or one that is further away, on an island in the caribbean, devastated by a natural disaster.*

31 Comments

EJ

I love this post, particularly the last paragraph.

I also cannot promote the wonder of walking enough! Now that the ice is nearly gone here I am planning a very long walk. Cannot wait.

nicole

a beautifully written post that reminds us all to be present, mindful, and grateful. thank you.

KD

i think relaxing is a total art! there are times when i lay down on the ground to stare at the sky and i realize how long it’s been since i’ve done that and it’s astonishing. all art needs practice and dedication, so your post is reminding me to rededicate to relaxation and loafing! Thanks!

Wendy

Thank you, Ashley, for reminding me to take some time today, to just “be”. My mind has been full of how to accomplish all of my list on my day off of work. And it has finally warmed up enough to get outside for a long stroll with my dog.

sunny

Excellent post. Well written and perfect timing – as we head into the weekend.

The ironic thing is I have read “The Art of Doing Nothing” but I was too busy to do more than skim it quickly because it was overdue at the library. Time to check the book out again and really apply it.

Now I get it and want to become a master of doing nothing this weekend!

diana

Yes. I recognize what you said about creativity. And I agree with the walking-theory. And the looking at hte clouds, or the rippling of the grass. There is not even the need to read a book about it, if you ask me ;)).

sally

the idea of reading a book about doing nothing is sort if funny to me, but i thoroughly agree that staring at the sky or the ocean is one of the most therapeutic and important things we can do!

Kristy

Such a great article…This is just as true for children as adults. That unscheduled, unstructured time revives the fallow fields of our minds. Doing nothing has never been more important!

Jacqui

How funny, just yesterday I was laying on the floor in my apartment staring out the window at the moving clouds. It reminded me of when I would lay in the grass during the summer and stare up. I felt like I was in a meditative state.
I’m also a firm believer in taking walks to clear my head and surrounding myself with nature. Thanks for sharing!

ecogrrl

another great post, ashley…

probably the best part of being unemployed this past summer was the loafing – after losing my guilt over it, i sunk my teeth into long bike rides to parks where i would just lay there and smell the grass and look up at the sky and drown in a book…sigh…

Adina

Wow. Recent tremors here in Guatemala always make me think twice about how much I am enjoying the moment I am in at the time. Things like that make you re-evaluate quickly!

Bailey B

I do my best learning while walking. My med school study partner & I have adopted a study strategy that includes long walks (sometimes up to 3 hours) around town & campus while quizzing each other for upcoming exams. Its amazing how much you can think when your body is on the move.

Kit

One of my favorite posts ever on Design Sponge (I’m an unapologetic daydreamer). This fall I started a ritual of watching the (too early) sunset from a favorite perch in my bedroom, along w/my cat and tea. Another worthy idle pursuit!

Nancy Grady

I read this blog religiously and this is the first time I have left a comment. I love your post about clouds, just reading it made me feel peaceful. Thanks.

Betty

Ashley lovely blog and may I say sadly yours is one of the few that I have read in recent days that mentions the dreadful events in Haiti. So I’ve unsubscribed to those. Blogs are not only a window to a person’s creativity but a window to their soul.

Reese

I couldn’t agree more. I have a to do list that can never be complete because I’m always adding to it.

My husband helps me to slow down.

Aren’t husbands wonderful?!

p.s. very well said and written.

kris

this was so lovely to read, thank you for choosing to share those particular thoughts!

lindsey clare

i can echo Elizabeth in recommending Tom Hodgkinson’s How To Be Idle. i’m actually half way through this book at the moment and it is thoroughly enjoyable, with chapters on taking tea, sleeping in, and the cocktail hour – all things which we don’t take the time to do these days, but probably should!

Evelyne

Fantastic, deeply relevant post. I’d add Bertrand Russell’s “In Praise of Idleness” to your reading list.

I must admit that I still need to cultivate my idleness some more, since I have yet to take the time finish Russell’s book, but so far I’ve very much enjoyed his argument that bringing together friends and family for a dinner party is far more beneficial to society as a whole than “working” extra hours.

Quinn

I’ve been really working on this lately. The hustle and bustle gets empty FAST. Loving your thoughts on this subject and the book suggestions. Will check them out!

holly

Loved this post and remember receving the art of doing nothing for the expectent mother as a gift….It was a sweet book and I highly recommend it for a mama to be.

Kate

Have to recommend the book ” In Praise of Slowness: Challenging the cult of Speed” by Carl Honore.
In the same vein… questioning this frantic multitasking ever faster lifestyle we seem to be creating and feeding into.

Also Edward Abbey was a great walker and loafer. I can’t recommend his non-fiction scribblings high enough.

Alina

As Allen Ginsberg once said, ‘It’s never too late to do nothing at all!’. Here here.

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